It is your life, after all…
So take it!
Steer it where you want it to go.
Stop relying on others to tell you what to do & how to do it. Yes, ask questions, & listen to the replies, but don’t take it as gospel. (There is only one gospel… 😉)
Listen to the answer & ask more questions & more people, then you decide for yourself what your best course of action would be to get you where you want to go.
We need to look after our bodies, our minds, and our souls. It’s ours, after all…