Choice!

Everyone talks about boundaries and cutting off unhealthy relationships, but no one talks about…

How you will be made out to be the bad guy, and sometimes, you’ll almost be convinced that you are

How much you’ll want to call and update them when you hit milestones in your life

How difficult holidays will be and how odd it will feel when their birthday passes

How awkward it will be when someone asks you how they’re doing

How much you’ll actually miss them

Removing someone from your life doesn’t always stem from hatred… and that makes it so much more painful.

Making a choice to put yourself or your family first isn’t always clean break.
Sometimes, it’s a wound that opens over and over again before it finally heals.