Criticism!

Thoughts about criticism…

How do you react to criticism? Based on my own personal experience no matter what you do you will be criticized. You do good you will hear some unsavory comments….and if you do bad more unpleasant or offensive comments just the same…

How to respond to criticism

Listen to the other person. When someone offers criticism, listen to them to identify their main points. …
Decide if and when to respond. You may find that, in some situations, it is more productive to choose not to respond to criticism. …
Take time to reflect. …
Prepare a response. …
Follow up.

And these concluding thoughts…

It is easy to get angry with those who criticize you. But it is better to listen and to consider what they have to say.

If the criticism is completely misdirected and unfounded, then you can simply let it go. Yet often it can be valuable and productive to objectively consider what your critics are thinking.

The worst response to criticism is to become angry, insulted and defensive. For by doing so, you actually give more power and credibility to that criticism.

Instead, listen carefully and appreciatively to what your critics have to say. Even if the criticism is decidedly negative, somewhere there are positive insights that you can gain from it.

Don’t let your ego prevent you from learning something valuable. Being receptive to criticism strengthens your confidence and can improve your competence.

Choose to know and understand what others think of you. Instead of getting angry and defensive over the words of others, choose to listen, consider and grow stronger because of them.