Boyfriend!

As people age, while “boyfriend” is still perfectly acceptable, some choose to use more formal or descriptive terms like “partner,” “significant other,” or “gentleman friend” to refer to their older male partner. Some also find the term “boyfriend” to be a bit juvenile and prefer more mature labels like “partner” or “life partner”. Ultimately, the choice of term is a personal one and depends on individual preferences and the specific context. 

Here’s a more detailed look at some alternative terms:

• Partner: This is a common term used in more mature relationships, often implying a long-term commitment and a serious connection. 
• Significant other: This is a general term that can be used in any relationship, regardless of age. 
• Gentleman friend: This is a more formal term that can be used when speaking about an older male partner. 
• Life partner: This term is often used to indicate a long-term commitment and a close relationship. 
• Beloved: This term can add a touch of affection and intimacy to the relationship. 
• My man: This is a more casual term that can be used in certain contexts. 
• My guy: Similar to “my man,” this term can be used in casual settings. 
• My SO: This is an abbreviation for “significant other” and is often used in casual conversations. 
• Fella: This term is more informal and can be used when referring to a male partner in a casual way.