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MANIPULATION ( A major red flag in life )Manipulation is the process of trying to change another person’s feelings, beliefs or behavior through indirect tactics rather than asking for what they want . Manipulative people tend to use deception, coercion, even threats to get their needs .Manipulation in a relationship is a serious problem becauseContinue reading “Thoughts on manipulation!”

Thoughts about relaxation “The quieter you become, the more you can hear. “ I love it when some of you my FB friends show your appreciation by reacting, not necessarily commenting. There are those of us who find it hard to put into words their feelings and there are those who are spontaneous. Well, IContinue reading “Time to Relax!”

Here we go again. What happens in Vegas does not stay in Vegas, when it comes to Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck tying the knot this past weekend in Las Vegas. She wrote on her fan website, “We did it. Love is beautiful. Love is kind. And it turns out love is patient, twenty yearsContinue reading “Married in Vegas!”

Life is supposed to be fun.We get stuck in the day-to-day, & time just ticks along, and we forget to have fun.Make sure to move FUN right up to the top few on your priority list (right after basic needs have been met). And try to have fun even when going through your day-today drag.Continue reading “Fun!”

Thoughts about Quotes to help through a breakthrough… The following quotes might just help along that path to recovery, whether it’s the wisdom of Eleanor Roosevelt or the eternal optimism of Winnie the Pooh.With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts. — Eleanor RooseveltWe must be willing to get rid of the lifeContinue reading “Here’s to survival!”

Your soul is the individuation of the Divine Spirit, which is All There Is. The soul is the universal life energy, focused and localized and vibrating at a particular frequency in one specific time and space. Energy vibrating in such a highly specific way is a Singular Outflow of Universal Life. You may abbreviate thatContinue reading “Soul!”

There will be days, my friend…When you feel like you just can’t go on.Just keep swimming.Breathe in and breathe out and wait for the light of a new day to dawn. There will be days, my friend…When nothing seems to be making sense.It’s not supposed to.Clear your mind and open your heart, the answers willContinue reading “There will be Days!”

Thoughts about criticism… “There is only one way to avoid criticism; do nothing, say nothing , and be nothing.” Aristotle When you criticize someone, you get hurt too. … When we criticize others, we are not helping but embarrassing them. A judgmental mindset damages our ability to appreciate things too. It implies blame: When somethingContinue reading “Let them talk!”

Thoughts about dogs… “Dogs are kind, loving, and compassionate – they forgive everything and never hold a grudge. No matter what a dog is doing, they are always present in the moment. If you watch your dog throughout the day you’ll find that your dog is a better person than most humans.” And why doContinue reading “Dogs!”

James Caan and Ray Liotta passed within just three months from each other, James Caan passed away on July 6. Two days later, Tony Sirico passed. We all loved James Caan, 82, the Oscar-nominated star of The Godfather, Misery and Elf. He was born in the Bronx in 1940, he emerged as a leading manContinue reading “The Best of James Caan!”