Thoughts about taking full responsibility…
I don’t know but there are those of us who put the blame on someone when things don’t work out the way they should be. I am no exception. Take ownership and learn from that mistake.
“Focus on fixing the problem, never focus on the blame. Problems are only resolved when solutions are sought.” Catherine Pulsifer
“When we assign blame we are pointing the finger to who or what is responsible for a fault or for a wrong doing. We are trying to make others accountable. Blaming does not solve a problem it usually only makes people defensive.” Catherine Pulsifer
As I say it here.
Stop thinking of it as somebody’s fault. Start treating it as your responsibility.
You’ve learned there’s nothing to be gained by looking for something or someone else to blame. You know you have everything to gain by taking responsibility, by doing something good and useful.
So do it. Break free from the useless need to blame, from resentment, from excuses, and break through into action.
Own your circumstances. Whether they are mostly of your making, or mostly not, step forward and make a positive difference.
Rehashing what this person could have done, what that person should not have done, will only drag you down. Get over it, and focus all your attention on what you can do now.
Own your circumstances, no matter what they are, or how they came to be. Own your circumstances, and from them you will make great progress